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How do you know when someone really loves you?

Last Updated: 29.06.2025 00:18

How do you know when someone really loves you?

[I'd make him read this someday, for sure ;) afterall y'all know I was missing him except him, he should know as well :D]

I was so angry and upset with him yesterday that I decided I won't talk to him for a week and show him that I don't care even if he doesn't talk :D

Now, question migt come into your mind that why I didn't dropped a text or call? Why such ego in a woman :D

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

Yesterday I was missing my boyfriend so bad that I cried myself to bed, I really wanted to talk to him, hug him and tell him so many stories going all around in my life. It's been a long time we spent time together, yeah right, we are in a long distance relationship.

But today, when he texted me a good morning, I blushed and all my anger vanished. (^_^)

First, I know his journey and also the potholes he has been facing.

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You'd know. You'd feel. You'll be patient even in chaotic situations with them. It'll bring sense of understanding. You'll build that understanding with that person gradually that you won't need an outsider’s advice, gossiping little inconveniences of your relationship with a friend/BFF, influencer’s egoistic advice(tit for tat).

Edit: Thank you so much everyone for your compliments and appreciation ❤️

It'll bring clarity and peace. Just be patient with one another.

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How do you know when someone really loves you?

He's preparing for government exams. (Proud of him already looking at his hard work). I preferred not to disturb him because

Edit: Women and men, who are advising me to get a career, I'm a Senior Software Engineer in a very reputed company, please don't misunderstand love with career. Both are important part of life and has value.

I accidentally bought a protein powder that gains weight by mistake, can I still use it to lose weight if I only consume small portions? Or is it completely useless now?

Third, I was in a emotional state, I knew if I would've texted him I would definitely made him emotional too, and he might feel guilty for not giving me proper time that any fancy relationship nowadays requires( why would I make my man upset over these issues which I can handle by my own only with some understanding and **love**, he already knows all the struggle and differences our relationship’s going through).

Second, he studies for long hours it literally sucks all the energy out from a person till midnight.